Monday, April 18, 2011

The Date

Banyak sungguh dugaan sebenarnye bile cerita bab kawen nih. Start dari nk pilih tarikh,pilih tempat,pilih tema,pilih baju,pilih kasut,etc etc ..sume kalau ikutkan hati nak aje fikir diri sendiri.



Tapi realitinye x.



Banyak hati harus dijaga.Pendapat harus diambil kira. Tak boleh buat keputusan ikut kepala sendiri. Tak boleh pakai idea kite sorang2..(eventho kalau nk difikirkan sape yg nk kawen..aku ke dorang???)


So far one of the reason why i cannot really proceed with the preparation for my wedding (selain drpd wedding my sis next month) is actually because i still could not confirm on the venue.


The venue that I originally wanted (X) mmg sangat sangat sangat bermasalah. Daripada tahun lepas aku dok tunggu sampai la ni x boleh nak confirm2 lg. So i made up my mind and decided to look somewhere else. X kuase aku nk menunggu mcm tunggu bulan jatuh ke riba. X kuaso den!


So that's why in my previous post i wrote about my visit to this place (Y). Actually mid of last year i already considered this place to be my wedding venue but PR dorang mase tu sangat hampeh.Email and call x pnh berjawap. Website,blog,facebook pun dibiarkan sepi. So i guess there's noway nak berurusan ngn org cmni, then i took off. Carik tempat lain.


I guess rezeki nk dpt tempat yg X ni pun mmg xde.So lately tjumpe this one blog yg nk buat wedding kt situ (Y). Ntah macamane tbuka pintu hati ni nk try lg sekali kt situ..And it turned out ok. The owner was quite ok and been really helpful. My fiance love it and i brought my mum for 2nd visit and she loved it too and from that moment i knew that is the place.


Bile dah discuss further ade 1 more lg jd penghalang. The date i want was already booked! I was so dissapointed.Previously u hv no idea how we had changed our date sooooooo many tiimes smpai aku jd menyampah nk pikir soal tarikh.Finally we came up and agreed with this 1 date.Lastly bile dah dpt tempat date lagi jd masalahnye. Dahla aku sudah book itu MUA..eiiiiii tensen tau!


Well,nk buat cmne org book tempat skrg ni 1 year in advance tau. Aku yg lambat.xle nk salahkan sape.So nak tak nk kene tukar tarikh lg if i still want the venue.


If u were in my place,sanggup x korang tukar tarikh because of the venue,considering that the venue is actually one of the biggest thing when it comes to a wedding. So aku kene tukar blk tarikh2 dimana aku dah ade booking vendors, MUA bagai....Fuhhhh


Semoga tuhan bagi aku perjalanan yg lancar..AMIN



XOXO

3 comments:

aylahoney said...

dila, tarikh nikah biarlaa as agreed before.. tapi tarikh reception ni bebila bleh buat.. just nak announce formally bout your new status.. jgn pening2 sgt.. venue reception plak biarla lengkap dgn surau n toilets so that family kita yg dtg jauh2 tu selesa.. yg wajib adalah nikah tau... jgn lupa tu.. pastu cepat2 konpem venue n date.. baru la bleh proceed dgn kad n pk camna nak deco your hall.. colour tema ape yg sesuai dgn hall.. nanti ko pilih tema hijau, sekali carpet hijau.. terus tenggelam gemerlapan ko..=D

Izrin said...

I had the same prob too when looking for venues, yes, u're right, ppl book a year in adv. I started to book 6 months before tarikh, i didnt manage to get the saturday that i want. but i wanted to stick to the same weekend as planned, but i had to let go of saturday, i booked for friday night.

a lot of things need to be considered beofre u change ur date. MUA and other vendors wud have been booked if u were to ask for othr weekends, n not all will be available on the date yg u tukar.. hehe..but as for me, ada hikmah disebalik booking on friday night. vendors and MUA are generally free on weekdays! heheh... it was quite easy to get them to change the date. :) just a thought..

DalilaMian said...

fadilah: betul tu..mmg dah nait xnk tukar tarikh nikah.kalau nk tukar pun sanding aje..
izrin:kan????MUA yg penting tuh..hahah..lucky u kalau still dpt maintain MUA and other vendors kalau tetibe kene tukar tarikh tau.